These three kinds of people bring their own noble spirit, please make a deep acquaintance for a lifetime.
"the Little Prince" says:
it is true that a person's interpersonal circle is enough to determine his way of life, and then affect the fate of his life.
the sea of people is vast, if you keep company with evil, why suffer in the afterlife?
time is in a hurry, if you choose the good, you will not be afraid of both wind and rain.
there is only one life, only one heart, and only by making friends can you enjoy happiness and happiness.
Uncle Fan believes that these three kinds of people are the ones who deserve a lifetime of friendship.
people with a good mindset
General Patton once said:
ups and downs are life, and some people can handle things.
the twists and turns are fate. Some people can't bear the pain and raise their hands to beg for mercy.
this reminds me of my sister-in-law's experience of opening a shop and starting a business with her friends.
in the first two months, there was no one in the store. Not only did the two men not earn much money, they even put their principal into it.
when you do business, you can't guarantee a steady profit, but my sister-in-law sits in the shop all day and sighs and puts forward the idea of closing the shop.
looking at the appearance of his sister-in-law's collapse, the friend comforted: "it's normal to do things. It's over. There's plenty of good scenery waiting for us."
later, my sister-in-law went to the nearby neighborhood to attract customers with her friends every day.
over time, business in the store has picked up, and there have been a lot of repeat customers.
my sister-in-law no longer clamors about closing the shop, and she is even more admired and grateful when she mentions her friends.
Festinger's Law says:
the world is changeable, and most of the people who do not give up their success or failure will enjoy their hardships.
people who see the state of mind in adversity and never give up on success or failure are better able to carry things and are worth making deep friends.
people with high EQ
Zeng Guofan once said, "if you don't say anything, there will be leeway if you don't do it."
the mountains do not turn around, everyone has their own difficulties, do not say anything, leave room for things, not only to show mercy to each other, but also to leave a way back for themselves.
once read a story about a young girl who went to learn wood carving.
although she is full of confidence, the portraits she can carve are always far from satisfactory.
when the old master saw it, he instructed her and said, "carving is just like us. We should leave some leeway."
sculpt the nose to be big, so that it can be changed smaller later.
sculpt eyes should be small so that they can be enlarged and easily modified.
but if there is no room for change, if something goes wrong, the whole piece of good wood will be wasted.
when contradictions occur, aggressive people will only increase grievances and further troubles, it is better to take a step back and be quiet.
be offended, leave room for laughter, keep your demeanor, and win more respect.
doing things, forcing the other party to the end of the mountain, but for now to relieve the gas, give each other three inches of space, can save worries.
those who meet with EQ and show mercy are able to keep their mouth shut and keep their heart, which is worthy of deep acquaintance.
people of good character
Dumas once said, "one or two sincerity is far better than a ton of cleverness."
sincere people match their words and deeds, make friends with them, have less hypocrisy, and have more peace of mind.
hypocritical population honey belly sword, associate with it, less warm and kind, more suspicious and jealous.
my aunt once told me about her experience of making friends.
at that time, she worked hard in Beijing and was short of money. A friend from out of town came to see her every now and then, and her name was to accompany her aunt to relieve boredom.
every time this friend comes, my aunt will take the initiative to give her the bed, and she will sacrifice her rest time to walk around with her friends on weekends.
this friend also said that she would take good care of her aunt when she went to her city in the future.
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but when my aunt really went, my friend looked impatient.
two people ate one meal, and the money was shared equally. She also pretended that she was busy and left her aunt to look for the hotel alone with her luggage.
after a while, she called again to ask for help, but her aunt didn't want to pay any attention to her.
as the saying goes, "A good mouth wins for a while, but you really win a lifetime."
to interact with people is to have a heart-to-heart relationship with people, and to say all kind words is scattered sand. Only by treating people with sincerity can we go a long way.
get along with sincere people, real feelings, not tired.
it is difficult to get along with people who disobey their will.
people who meet with each other and keep sincerity are reliable and worthy of deep acquaintance.
John Donne once said:
being alive is a practice of constantly dealing with people, and choosing which kind of people to make deep acquaintance with is a trial.
those who can carry things will help you grow, those who know how to measure, those who share your worries, and those who are sincere will be happy with you.
May the people you walk with be optimistic and tenacious for the rest of your life, the people you work with have a heart like the sea, and the people who get along with you are sincere.