Life is short, don't love too much, don't stay up too late

how should one spend one's life?

Ostrovsky said:

most of the time, people always complain about "living too hard" and "living too hard".

I do not know that it is precisely my own painting that has become a prison and put shackles on my body and mind.

Life is short. If you don't want to be sorry and ashamed, remember not to love too much and stay up too late.

learn to please yourself so that life can be kind to it.

01

Don't love too much. Save three points for yourself

someone said: "if you love someone, you must do your best without reservation."

I do not deny that love requires input and giving, but everything follows the principle of "everything goes to the extreme".

if you empty yourself and give everything, the other person probably doesn't know how to cherish it;

if you devote yourself to love, the other person will only feel suffocated.

this is the truth of the saying that when the moon gains, it loses, and when the water is full, it overflows.

I remember reading this piece of news some time ago:

Chen, a 29-year-old graduate with a master's degree, jumped into the Pearl River to commit suicide after leaving 18 articles in his diary.

it turns out that Chen broke up with his girlfriend a few months ago, but he could not accept it and was immersed in sadness all day long.

finally, in the absence of success, he chose to end his life.

later, the reporter learned that his girlfriend broke up only because she couldn't stand each other's "strong" love.

when he was still together, Chen fell low in the dust, loved humbly and passionately, and took his girlfriend as his only spiritual sustenance.

over time, my girlfriend became depressed and tired, and she had no choice but to break up.

this reminds me of a sentence that writer Zhang Xiaoxian once said:

in this life, do not force everything, especially feelings, to know how to advance and retreat.

if you push too hard, the relationship will not last; only when it is right, can you be happy with each other.

so, when you treat someone wholeheartedly, you must not forget to leave blank space for yourself.

as long as you learn to love eight points, you can have love, do not lose yourself, when no one loves, do not lose life.

Love is not longevous, strong is humiliating, don't love too much, there is room for it.

live more expensive and love longer for the rest of your life.

02

Don't stay up too late. Healthy people live the most profitable lives

people's lives are the most expensive.

nothing is worth wasting your life to accomplish.

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there is such a short story.

the town's millionaire, who has worked hard for most of his life, suddenly felt unwell and went to the hospital for an examination.

after the examination, the doctor told him that only by quiet self-cultivation can his body recover slowly.

the rich man immediately retorted: "I still have a lot of things to deal with. I don't even have enough time to sleep. How can I cultivate myself quietly?"

the doctor did not speak, but took him to a graveyard and said to him:

awakens the dreamer.

from then on, the rich man no longer sacrificed his rest time because of his work. He was happy all day and was in good health again.

Bacon once said:

many of us struggle day after day in exhaustion, tired for money and suffering for money.

until the body issued an early warning, I didn't realize that "not sick" is the proudest thing in my life.

nine times out of ten, life is not satisfactory.

the best way to say goodbye to troubles is to let yourself fall asleep in time after a busy day.

when you wake up, you will find that all regrets and sufferings drifted away with the long night, leaving only light and love by your side.

so people who are really happy never stay up late.

I hope you do the same. The more busy you are, the earlier you want to go to bed. Be sure not to stay up late.

as long as you take good care of yourself, you can meet a better rest of life in the future.

therefore, don't stay up too late, learn to be lazy, give your body a chance to catch your breath, and you will be much happier.

03

people can't start all over again in this life, so it's better to be happy than to please others.

the real skill is to live a poetic life of hardship and an affectionate world.

so stop crying for people who are not worth it. When you can't help it, go home and sleep with your head covered. Get some sleep and keep your spirit up.

as Bi Shumin said:

I wish you happiness and happiness for the rest of your life.